I don't know why it bothered me so much, but I couldn't help but thinking about those people popping the question to their other partner(s), and the struggle that they had to have went through to find a ring or set of rings that would work for them.
I decided to go to www.etsy.com and reach out to some shops that had rings that caught my eye to see if they would create custom triad sets. I am happy to say that there was such a great response. I decided to come back to my blog and start a whole series on polyamory wedding / commitment ceremony guides.
I hope you enjoy.
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At Skyeanddrylie shop I found this adorable carved spoon for only $10.00 . This would be such a cute way to pop the question. But it doesn't quite fit for a triad. So, I messaged the shop and asked if they would be able to do a spoon that said, "Will you marry us?" They responded that they would be able to do that. They did not say if there would be an additional charge for a custom order or not, so if this idea interests you, send them a message and ask.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/93240597/will-you-marry-me-teaspoon-with?ref=shop_home_active_2 |
Now onto rings. These are rings that caught my eye and that I thought would work well for two people as well as triads. I will note that I contacted each of these shop owners to ask specific questions about their products to see if they could make them more poly friendly and/or triad friendly.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/237116512/personalized-matching-promise-rings |
These wedding bands are listed in the shop. OnlyUniqueGifts. It is listed currently for $49 for the pair. They did tell me that they could do a set of three, but they have not given me a price yet.
These wedding rings are listed in the shop FashionMyHome. This is a set for a man and woman and is currently listed for $27. They did tell me that they could do a three piece set if I would like.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/104908901/personalized-sterling-silver-promise |
https://www.etsy.com/listing/179364552/wedding-band-wedding-ring-engagement |
These wedding bands can be found in the shop JubileJewel. These rings would be awesome for two people, but doesn't quite fit a triad either. I messaged the shop owner, and asked if they could make two women's rings that said "I love him and her" and a male ring that said "I love her & her". They said they would be happy to do that. Since they are able to customize the rings to fit your needs, this would be a great set of rings for a trouple.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/245764869/couple-promise-ring-always-ring-with |
Now onto my favorite triad wedding ring set.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/233921639/personalized-engraved-couples-promise |
Well, I hope you enjoy this wedding ring / engagement ring guide for polyamory couples and triads. It warms my heart that shops like these on etsy are willing to work with non-traditional relationships to make their commitment ceremony / wedding day as special as their love.